Dena Harris- Author. Humorist. Speaker. Ultra-marathon runner. Former vegan. Defender of furry creatures (except spiders). Mid-westerner living in the South. Control freak. Business Writer. Dark chocolate addict. Cover hog. Klutz. Contact her at www.denaharris.com

 ” Be brave in business writing.” Dena Harris

 

Today was the day I had been waiting for as I was finally able to attend a Monthly luncheon that everyone has been raving about. A speaker was scheduled to talk about blogging, and even though I have been blogging for a long time, I always enjoy hearing from someone new.

My GPS, named Hilda, got me there after a little tour of downtown Winston-Salem! As I was parking I found a spot next to a lady that was unloading her car. I thought she must be our speaker, and as I got out I saw she was on her cell phone. No time for introductions, but as I breezed by I offered to help carry in her things. She said no and waved me on.

I approached the door of the restaurant and it was opened by someone also attending the same luncheon.  We ambled to the designated room for a networking time. As I entered the room I saw several people I knew and made the comment out loud that I didn’t hit the speaker in the parking lot and she would be here soon.

The next thing I remember is our host said, “our speaker is already here Sue,” and introduced me to Dena Harris! I laughed and apologized as if this was no big deal, but inside I just wanted to disappear and re-enter again!

To top off the faux pas, Dena looked at me complimented my colors, and said she enjoyed reading my blog and did I have a business card. I said thank you as I stumbled around apologizing again, and digging for a card. Could it get any worse than this?

Here I was the owner of a company, thinking I knew what I was doing, showing up for an important luncheon without having done my homework ahead of time.

But Dena had done hers. As she shared tips about blogging that I recorded on my iPad, she gave me new ideas that apply both to personal and business blogs.

These include: finding your own unique voice and not copying someone else, and determine what appeals to you and would you read it. Her idea of writing as you actually speak was an important eye opener for me.

Dena had saved the best for last. She suggested we take the time to define and find our ideal reader by detailing them by gender, age, income, car, movies, what they expect, and then use our personality to write for them.

After she finished speaking she answered our questions gracefully, and mentioned she does a creative writing class, should we be interested. She concluded sharing she would be available after the meeting to meet us.

As soon as I could I headed to ask Dena if I could share this story and the great tips she had given us.  I then got my courage back and asked if she would consider doing her creative writing class at my training center.

Dena Harris did not hesitate or stumble over her words and looked at me and smiled, and said: “Sure share anything you want, I would be honored and contact me at my website to set up some workshops.”

What started out as a very bad business situation, ended as a “WOW” memory in my life. My thanks to Dena as I can’t wait to see and hear more of her.

Have a great week making sure you always do your homework before you attend an event!

 

“Simply” Sue Falcone is owner of “Simply” Sue Speaks!

a world known company providing Professional Entertaining

Speakers, Trainers, Life Coaches, and Authors: bringing the

“WOW” factor to your next local, regional, national, or

                                   international event. Sue also owns the Falcone Training

                                   Center in Greensboro, NC.

 

 

 

 

 

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8 replies on “How Not to Be a “WOW” Business Owner!”

  • January 8, 2013 at 8:09 pm

    Aw, thanks Sue, but you didn’t stumble anywhere near as bad as you think. We all have those days. 🙂 Looking forward to connecting with your writers group and for anyone interested, here’s the blink to the writing course I co-teach: http://thewritemotivation.com/

  • January 8, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    Honored to meet and share Dena Harris and the true stories of our lives! As my Team Member, Carol Caffarel says, “you just can’t make this stuff up:)” Love to hear your stories!

  • January 8, 2013 at 9:45 pm

    Awww… Sue.. you’re too hard on yourself! Glad you were able to make it out!

    • January 8, 2013 at 9:52 pm

      Hi Kristen, amazing how things happen in life, and we can share a story and help others not to be too hard on themselves either! Love doing life together! Have a great week!

  • Betty Morton
    January 8, 2013 at 11:14 pm

    Hi Sue, thanks for sharing your notes from the luncheon today. I couldn’t make it, but wanted to be there. Maybe I can take Dena’s writing class. Enjoy the rest of your week!

  • January 8, 2013 at 11:24 pm

    Sue ~ Love your candor – both you and Dena! Thanks for sharing your humanity! Truth is so much more fun than fiction. 🙂

  • January 9, 2013 at 8:32 am

    I’m sure everyone of us could cite a similar circumstance. With all respect to the late Art Linkletter, It’s not just kids who say the darnedest things. Great blog!

  • January 9, 2013 at 9:34 am

    Great story and message Sue. Thanks for sharing.